Male-Bashing Manosphere
Fighting Feminist Fire with Manosphere Fire
For a number of years, I have been following the online male community, also known as the Manosphere. I will give the Manosphere a little bit of credit because it correctly acknowledges that feminism is a problem. What I find interesting and troubling is that men are being duped because this community claims to fight feminism. But what a lot of people do not understand is that the Manosphere is counter-feminism. It is equal-opposite feminism—it is feminism for men. A lot of people think feminism is equality, imaginary grievances, and narcissistic, independent and difficult women. Those are parts of it, but they are not its foundation.
Feminism is, and always has been, sex antagonism and sex war. It works by dividing the sexes, inflaming relations and dismantling the family. If the effectiveness of feminism wears off and marriage occurs, it works on quick and easy divorce. Then it champions single mothers, their difficult journeys, and the male-resenting programming that is passed to their daughters or a level of shame that young men absorb. One purpose of feminism is to ensure that men and women stay apart, or that their unions are temporary. The Manosphere aids in this process by keeping relations inflamed and men discouraged and resentful of women.
Let me prove it.
Disillusioned About Illusions
Think about the times when you have read a Manosphere article or a book or watched a video. You have
hoped for some advice or guidance and you have been met with a statistic, an infographic, or a poll. How has that material made you feel? Do you feel elated? Happy? Hopeful? Optimistic? Does it renew your faith in women? Do you feel like taking some flowers to a beautiful lady? I would be surprised.
Instead, you get “plate spinning” and biological clocks and walls, hypergamy, gold diggers, catch phrases, statistics and polls. You either feel inadequate, inflamed and ready to beat her at her own game, or you feel content to walk away. Perhaps compare yourself to the Manosphere influencer, who interestingly seems to have everything you lack—who dresses well, has a nice physique, speaks well, has money, property, success and all of the answers. You follow the influencer’s dangling carrot, down his own trail, and come back feeling encouraged about being discouraged. Feelings of inadequacy cause a degree of depression that is consoled only by your willingness to walk away from the hope of finding a good woman.
Downright Discouraged
But you don’t feel encouraged. Your situation hasn’t improved. You never feel united or your faith in women strengthened or restored. To you, “the juice isn’t worth the squeeze” since women are so troublesome, high maintenance, self-destructing, and a liability.
You are led to believe that women want men with a certain appearance, with certain assets, in a certain financial bracket. You believe you might not stand a chance, and are doomed to be alone because you do not have what she wants. Then you view women with distrust and skepticism or you write them off completely and avoid them. This is the programming of the Manosphere and it is deliberately divisive and discouraging. The way you think and feel and the choices you make are molded by this community. Have you ever stopped to think about whether the information you are receiving is true?
The Counter-Feminist Cult
The Manosphere is a counter-feminist, or what I call a “menimist” cult and it ensnares men everywhere. It only serves to divide and validate men’s choice not to get involved with women to any meaningful extent, which is part of feminism and socialism, and single men everywhere are influenced by its guidance. The brainwashing is so effective that even very educated men do not appear to see the feminist-socialist current flowing beneath. Men are apt to defend the Manosphere and its principles, believing that it is their ally and guiding force when it is the enemy that has completely enslaved them and ruined their futures – just as feminism has done to women.
The Manosphere objectifies women to the point that they believe that women have no value after their breeding years and it hails the notion that women depreciate to expiry after around age 30. It reduces a woman to a farm animal; it does not inspire any civilized purpose or depth of feeling. It is about superficial connections and beating feminists at their own game with counter-feminism. Because most men do not understand the core aims of feminism and socialism, they never catch on.
Manosphere Weapons Useless on Feminists
Another example of how the Manosphere is divisive and not doing you any favors is that the Manosphere’s
weapons only work on the good women—the women you do want to attract. They are completely
ineffective on feminists. They make good women feel inadequate also, through their appearance, age,
competition, and financial dependency, in addition to feeling that the only interest you have in them is
whether they can have children. Even the most fertile young women are only fertile for a couple of days of
each month. The rest of the time, they are not fertile. Some women are never fertile. But to reduce any
woman to a breeding mare is being a male feminist. Traditional American men never treated women this
way. If you want a good woman in your life, this is a concept you may wish to discard.
No Need For Those Who Don’t Need You
The harsh truth is that feminists do not need you, and ultimately, they do not want you; they want to fight you. Society has created a very strange type of woman. Perhaps fighting is a short-term thrill for you, but that is not a long-term candidate. Independent women do not need your money or protection, they do not need your manhood, and they do not need your genes. Because of science and society, female empowerment is real. Women have proven that they can do it all, and sometimes with a fraction of the time and trouble. But always at a cost.
Imitation males are not the ones who make good mothers or marriages. Too many men—and children—have discovered this hard truth. So release those women to the world to avail themselves of comparatively unimportant work for a world that will forget them as soon as they finish, and they can live their following years in solitude and sorrow, wishing they had set different priorities. Those are not the women with whom it is wise to build a life, and unfortunately, there is a sad number of them.
The Inability to Dovetail
You need to look at all independent women, or feminists, as spherical entities. They will bump into you
and they will roll away, but they will never dovetail. You need to own your masculinity and seek the women who have the ability to dovetail. There are wonderful women out there, many of whom are sadly ashamed to embrace who they are and what they want. They dream about a life with you, marrying you, making your home and having your children. Don’t listen to the Manosphere and expect them to be spherical entities or think they are gold diggers or hypergamists because they allow you to assume your natural role and provide. All of our problems stem from our revolt against nature and God.
Then there is a whole sect of sick individuals, and I have no idea where they are coming from – women
who can’t wait for their husbands to come home and beat them because they’ve been bad. At present, I
cannot find words for this absurdity except that I hope there are not any children in these households.
No More Denial
We definitely have problems, no one can deny this. Many of these problems stem from absent parents who are not adequately rearing their children, from the divisive impact of feminism, because it affects a lot of different areas, and feelings and perceptions that stem from historical falsehoods, which comprise most of academia, history books, society and the media. I have spent years researching this topic and I have published an encyclopedia called Hidden from History – to which I am still adding volumes. But the Manosphere and all of the information that is derived from it are not the answer.
You must choose your influencers, authors and informative outlets wisely, in the same way that you choose your friends. In time, for better or worse, you will adopt perceptions and qualities and become like those people—not necessarily like the way in which they present themselves to you. Often it is their vices
that are absorbed first, because it takes less effort to absorb than it does to apply yourself to improve. So
do not unquestionably follow someone down their path because they appear to be exposing and fighting
your enemy. The Manosphere is your enemy because it deceptively keeps you away from women—all
women—in the same way that feminism keeps women from staying with you. And it keeps you in and out
of meaningless, short-term associations with women, one of the hallmarks of feminism and socialism.
Thank You For Being You
In closing, I would like for you to know that you are important. Regardless of culture, creed, or color, you come from a very long line of incredible men and women who were smart, able, courageous, and caring. They loved their families and they loved their country. You have nothing for which to feel ashamed or inadequate. You are more than enough. It does not matter if you are not a certain age or height or driving an expensive car or making a certain income. What is important is who you are.
You do not want someone who wants you for what you have. If who you are is not enough for a woman, then what you have will never be enough to make her stay. If you are a good, kind man with morals and integrity, who is devoted to his family, with masculine courage, a sense of ambition, and compassion to protect and provide, that is all you need. Character is the secret. You could live in a hovel and if a woman truly believed that she could count on you for anything, she would stand by you through everything.
Turn Away From Trouble
Stop following the Manosphere. Ignore the statistics. They are feminism; they are not meant to encourage you. Don’t lose faith in women and give up because there are wonderful women out there—and there will be many more when we stop fighting and women realize they have been duped by feminism and must turn around (and you can show them my content).
It is time to unite, not divide. I know of no other time in history when the world has needed you to this
degree. From the time a little girl holds her first doll, through her dreamy adolescence, through all of her
fantasies culminating in her marriage and her family, through looking back on the love that has always been her everything, you are the root of her happiness. Thank you for all you do for us, for your love, your support, your sacrifice and your service. Thank you immensely for being an inspiration to the world and especially for young men through your wonderful masculinity, and for being a man.
I have abundant hope and faith in you,
Danica De La Mora
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